The Divorce CultureAlfred A. Knopf, 1997 - 224 Seiten Barbara Dafoe Whitehead's Atlantic Monthly article "Dan Quayle Was Right" ignited a media debate on the effects of divorce that rages still. In The Divorce Culture she expands her argument. She shows us how our high-divorce society is creating a low-commitment culture where the breaking of bonds becomes a defining fact and metaphor in our most vital human relations, and where the interests and needs of children are increasingly neglected. Using a variety of cultural sources - children's books, greeting cards, and the literature of self-help, etiquette, and advice - as well as psychological and sociological research, she provides historical perspective and shows how Americans who once viewed divorce as a last resort have come to see it as an entitlement. She traces the change most particularly to the mid-sixties, when a major, and troublesome, shift took place, leading to what she calls "expressive divorce" - divorce as an individual prerogative, and as a source of personal growth and new opportunity. Whitehead does not oppose divorce as such. She assumes that it is often the only possible remedy for an irretrievably broken or violence-ridden marriage. Rather, it is against casual divorce that she argues - divorce that focuses on one person's rights, needs, and desires without regard to the consequences for others, especially children. And she makes us see how little attention is paid to preparation for marriage, with the result that it all too frequently turns out to be short-term, contingent, and subject to abrupt termination. |
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... children's well - being or the family's sta- bility as an institution for child - rearing but the individual's inner sense of well - being . Thus , the argument for " good divorce " goes well beyond the reasonable bid for conscientious ...
... children's well - being or the family's sta- bility as an institution for child - rearing but the individual's inner sense of well - being . Thus , the argument for " good divorce " goes well beyond the reasonable bid for conscientious ...
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... children , it also provides a shaky institutional foundation for child - rearing . In families organized around a large kin group , marital dissolution need not disrupt the familial sources of children's nurture or security because ...
... children , it also provides a shaky institutional foundation for child - rearing . In families organized around a large kin group , marital dissolution need not disrupt the familial sources of children's nurture or security because ...
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... child - rearing , the strains and stresses diminish time , supervision , and involvement in the children's school life . Other caring adults may provide some additional help , but even grandmother - mother households do not match two ...
... child - rearing , the strains and stresses diminish time , supervision , and involvement in the children's school life . Other caring adults may provide some additional help , but even grandmother - mother households do not match two ...
Inhalt
The Problem of Divorce | 13 |
The Rise of Expressive Divorce | 45 |
The Divorce Ethic | 66 |
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The Divorce Culture: Rethinking Our Commitments to Marriage and Family Barbara Dafoe Whitehead Eingeschränkte Leseprobe - 1998 |
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adults affection American family behavior Beverly Cleary biological chil child-rearing children's literature Cleary commitment conception of divorce couples Daddy disruption dissolution Divorce New York divorced families divorced mothers divorced parents dren economic Edith Wharton Emily Post emotional ethic Etiquette experience expressive divorce family breakup family household family relationships father feelings freedom growing happiness Henry Huggins husband Ibid idea ideal impact of divorce income individual institution intact families interests investment Judy Blume kids literature lives loss Love Family ideology marital marketplace marriage marriage counseling married couple married parents McLanahan and Sandefur middle-class moral Moreover Newbery Medal no-fault divorce norm notion nuclear family obligations Otis Spofford parent-child relationships parental divorce patterns percent popular post-nuclear family problems psychological rela remarriage riage romantic love sexual single mothers single-parent society spouse stepfamilies story therapeutic therapists thinking tion traditional Undine unhappy vorce vulgar divorce well-being women writes young